From a long time I wanted to write
something on the basic causes of rapes why do it happens in our society which
is increasing like cancer and the possible solution
In our society so far my personal
experience goes there are some strange stories available in our society like
myths regarding sex that each and every boy come across like the stories of
'Ali baba and 40 thieves', and 'the thirsty crow' etc. Which instinct boys
towards rape.
I'm sure everyone I mean boys must
know or heard the story that –
1. Girls are being for sex only, they
are always remain hungry for sex, just need to keep hand on them and they are
ready for penetration. The fact is its a bull shit nothing else.
2. It's a birth right for a boy/male
to have sex with any girl or woman either she is agree or not. What a dirty
opinion!
3. Boys are always indulges in the
gossip surrounding sex and think girls also remain busy in the same gossip.
4. Supporting (above mentioned)
stories are also available in the market in the form of small book with and
without pictures. And can be arranged easily as it is available in every corner.
5. And nowadays porn sites are
working like fuel in the burning fire.
6. All are male dominated and
influenced by these dirty thoughts.
7. Also mobile is working as vcd
player for showing porn.
8. It's a painful truth that 95 %
even more boys aged 9 to 25 are addicted towards porn and then the percent is
decreases but not finishes.
10. It's natural that boys easily
aroused sexually after watching porn or reading porn stories now they need to
exercise what they see, read or heard so ultimately it opens the door of rape
sometimes they inclined with incest or homo.
11. The fact is that girls are
neither hungry for sex nor they aroused easily if .001 percent arouse I don't
know then they have a strong control on it in contrary to boys, as they have no
control.
12. Girls are very very protective
towards sex and choosy in accepting partner unlikely boys, they only need to
exercise it hardly matters or bother about partner.
13. Girls are mostly interested in
romance but boys are mostly interested in sex.
14. It's a fact that girls can
satisfy herself orally but boys can never be.
15. Respect for girls attract them
more. And last but not least,
16. There is a huge gap between the
meaning of sex in both the sexes what boys need and girls expect.
These are some myths available in the
society which I think are the root causes of increasing nos of rapes and the
most important part is girls are ignorant about it.
Now what we need to to do 1st of all
we need to change these myths and present the fact before the society so that
our coming generation can know the facts not the myths which entails the change
of mentality of coming generation. I think without change of mentality of the
society rapes cannot be stopped.
How-
In the school especially in class 9th
and 10th standard there must be a lesson containing sexual differences between
boys and girls, facts of sex, what girls want and what should a boy
expect from girl, respect for woman, consequences of rapes, rape harm the
manhood. In short ins and outs of rape.
NGOs and media house can play an
important role by taking part creating awareness in the society.
Central and State Govt. should take
strict action in inclusion of a compulsory lesson in schools, colleges and
universities, apart from compulsory lesson there should be a lecture or
seminar in school, colleges and universities from time to time on rapes.
And finally by reading, commenting and sharing
this article and asking others to share so that a chain should formed and every
individual should read this article once, know these facts and a strong feeling
of respect for women should come into existence. Thus and only strong consensus can stop rape.
